Someone I respect has "corrected" me at least twice in front of others and has sounded very rude, cold and curt. Ouch. I know that my personality is one who woos (StrengthsFinder). I like people to like me. Logically I know that not everyone will like me. This is fine. It is. Really. However, when I am getting talked to like I am five years old and questioned about why or how I did something that I was asked to do and am just trying to do a good job and be helpful...that hurts.
Maybe it is peri-menopause on her part...and mine. I know I was premenstrual the second time she went off on me. Hormones - Gah! But at this point, I don't respect her and want to stay away from her. She is scary and I don't want to be put down and treated like I'm stoopid.
So I will come in, do what I have to do at my desk (which is now right in the front office with all the comings and goings of the school) and then go work with the students. I will keep to myself and not share much of me.
So...when someone is like this to me:
I feel like this to them:
and this just made me laugh:
Here is a like to a blog I like: Marc and Angel Hack Life 27 things you tolerate-too-often/